Yesterday I had the experience of presenting in a district that is very different from my own.  I am not going to go into the whole long story, but it was one of those times when I stood there thinking to myself…just stop talking….they are not in a place where they can hear this and utilize it…just stop.  I did my best to adapt on the fly and make some impact on the situation.  Then I packed up my laptop and hopped back in my minivan for the two hour drive home.  I love driving by myself sometimes. I listen to podcasts of presentations that I have missed, sometimes I mentally plan out my next big class project, and sometimes I just crank up the radio and sing out loud until my throat hurts.  All of these are healing times for me.  Yesterday, I spent the first leg of my trip going over all the possibilities of our impending building and grade level split.  It is a big stress for me, because our building is so great, and our principal is a visionary, leader, and most of all a friend.  It is one of those situations that will be an emotional upheaval on some level, no matter what happens.  I thought about how I wish this was not happening, and how I could help adjust and adapt after the split, and what if I lose my great teaching partner, or my computer room, or my (gulp) principal? 

Then I walked into my presentation site.

The second leg of my trip was a much different kind of reflection.  I prayed out loud for forgiveness….for being so self-absorbed and worrying about the little things.  Even if I teach in a closet next year, with no computers in my room, with total strangers, and (gulp) for another principal, it will be ok.  I have come so far, and sometimes I forget to look back…..yesterday, I looked back.  I love looking forward, having those pie in the sky conversations about where we will go.  But I need to remember to look back.

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2 Responses to “It’s All Relative”

  1.   DeAnna Sheets Says:

    All I can say is you are so right. We have it very great and sometimes we need a gut check to remind us.

    I had a similar experience this afternoon when I talked to one of the tech people at a small school where I will be doing a presentation on integrating technology. When I asked what technology they have she was very excited to say we just got 2 portable projectors in the JH and HS. How can I teach them how to integrate technology daily…shouldn’t I first give them a list of all the things they need to get? This presentation like yours is going to be a strain.

    I also have thought many times I hope I get to teach with my great teaching partner next year and my principal and everything else that I think makes teaching so great…but I know in my heart it is all going to be okay.

    Thank you for reminding me how great we have it!

  2.   Sarah Sutter Says:

    I have enjoyed reading your blog for the past weeks. Your thoughtful consideration of real-classroom issues on a scale that considers the individual moment and individual teacher really hits home. I’m in a great building with great teachers and a fabulous principal - and it is a large part of what keeps me moving forward. The lack of contract, unsupportive superintendent and myopic school board is just a small price to pay to work with my colleagues in a job that I love. Thanks for your reflection.

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